The question that changes everything
We begin every assessment with the same question. Not: what is wrong with this person. Not: what do they need help with. We ask: what does a good day look like for you.
The answers are never clinical. A good day, for Arthur, is waking without pain, having a boiled egg at eight, reading the Telegraph in his chair by the window, and walking to the postbox and back before lunch. For Sylvia, it is having her hair set, calling her sister at eleven, and watching the birds in the garden with a cup of Darjeeling. For James, who cannot speak since his stroke, it is being wheeled to the conservatory where the light falls across his lap in the late morning, and hearing his wife's voice reading aloud from the novel they started together before everything changed.
These answers are not nice-to-know background detail. They are the architecture of the care plan. Everything we design, every decision about who provides the care and how and when, begins here. With the person. With what matters to them. With the life they are trying to hold onto.